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Currently submitted to: JMIR AI

Date Submitted: Sep 5, 2026
Open Peer Review Period: Sep 22, 2026 - Nov 22, 2026
(currently open for review)

Warning: This is an author submission that is not peer-reviewed or edited. Preprints - unless they show as "accepted" - should not be relied on to guide clinical practice or health-related behavior and should not be reported in news media as established information.

"Even GPT Can Reject Me": Conceptualizing Abrupt Refusal Secondary Harm and Proposing Compassionate Completion Standard for Psychological AI Safety

  • Yang Ni; 
  • Tong Yang

ABSTRACT

Conversational artificial intelligence (AI) systems are increasingly used for emotional and mental health support because of their low cost, immediacy, and accessibility. However, when safety guardrails are triggered, these systems may abruptly refuse, redirect, or disengage from a conversation. In emotionally salient or high-risk contexts, the manner in which such interventions are delivered may intensify distress or contribute to additional harm among users who are already vulnerable. This viewpoint introduces abrupt refusal secondary harm (ARSH) as a preliminary construct describing potential psychological harm associated with abrupt, safety-driven changes in conversational engagement. Drawing on counseling and communication science as conceptual heuristics, we propose that abrupt refusal may disrupt perceived relational continuity, intensify emotional distress, and discourage future helpseeking. To address this possibility, we introduce the compassionate completion standard (CCS), a testable human-centered design hypothesis for safety interactions that aims to maintain appropriate boundaries while preserving relational coherence. The CCS emphasizes empathetic acknowledgement, transparent boundary setting, graded transition, and guided redirection rather than abrupt disengagement. Integrating awareness of ARSH into design practices may help identify avoidable secondary harms and inform AI safety practices that better account for users’ psychological wellbeing. Rather than presenting definitive empirical evidence, this viewpoint outlines an interdisciplinary research agenda and policy recommendations for the development and governance of conversational AI safety.


 Citation

Please cite as:

Ni Y, Yang T

"Even GPT Can Reject Me": Conceptualizing Abrupt Refusal Secondary Harm and Proposing Compassionate Completion Standard for Psychological AI Safety

JMIR Preprints. 05/09/2026:110472

DOI: 10.2196/preprints.110472

URL: https://preprints.jmir.org/preprint/110472

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